Saturday, July 18, 2009, 9:49 PM
Be contented with who you are!
This article is cool. taken from : www.ineedmotivation.com/blog
Comparing ourselves to others is something we do frequently. We often judge our own abilities in relation to how they compare to others. This is a recipe for a drop in our self esteem. It is not at all useful either. You have to look at your true value as a person; standing on your own not up against someone else. Usually when people compare themselves to others they end up comparing the other person’s strengths with their own weaknesses. This is not an accurate comparison at all. In the end it does not matter either way. You need to be happy with you; not you compared to someone else. There are ways to stop doing this.
• You have to gain an awareness of the situation. Many people compare themselves to others unconsciously, but you need to make yourself aware of the behavior as soon as you start to do it.
• Make yourself stop. Once you realize that you are doing this you have to make yourself change focus. Do not beat yourself up; just change the subject in your mind.
• Focus on the things that you have in your life to be thankful for. Think about all of the things that make you a lucky person. Do not spend time dwelling on what you do not have.
• Think about your strengths. Take the focus off of your weaknesses and celebrate the things that you do well. Be proud of yourself and work towards your goals using these strengths.
• Acknowledge that you will always have imperfections and learn to be alright with it. There is no one in this world that is perfect, yet we seem to let our imperfections cause us a great deal of stress. Striving to improve is a great way to spend your time; striving for perfection will only drive your crazy.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009, 10:45 PM
sorry.
Hi! you know what. i wont care anymore. (: cos this is my life and i should live for myself, not get upset over other ppl. this wont bother me anymore. and not gonna get angry with anybody (: haha so ya ,i feel good . (8
Sunday, July 12, 2009, 11:32 AM
hold on
Stop Crying Your Heart Out - Oasis Hold up Hold on Dont be scared Youll never change whats been and gone
May your smile (may your smile) Shine on (shine on) Dont be scared (dont be scared) Your destiny may keep you warm
Cos all of the stars Are fading away Just try not to worry Youll see them some day Take what you need And be on your way And stop crying your heart out
Get up (get up) Come on (come on) Whyre you scared? (Im not scared) Youll never change Whats been and gone
Cos all of the stars Are fading away Just try not to worry Youll see them some day Take what you need And be on your way And stop crying your heart out
Cos all of the stars Are fading away Just try not to worry Youll see them some day Take what you need And be on your way And stop crying your heart out
Were all of us stars Were fading away Just try not to worry Youll see us some day Just take what you need And be on your way And stop crying your heart out Stop crying your heart out Stop crying your heart out
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